SD-here is all you need to know about your W. She is fully detached from you right now. Whether or not that is a permanent thing, I have no clue. So please stop worrying about her reactions and her thoughts. Stop trying to figure out her moves. You are only going to get hurt more and more. Bro, I was there. This is a big moment for you. You need to get where she is.

You've done all the scouting you can do. You know the opponent. Now it's time to gameplan. Get yourself an attorney. If you are ever going to splurge on something in your lifetime, a good attorney is way better than any flatscreen tv or luxury car. They will help you get your life the way you want it, as best they can. Give the attorney everything you have. Hand all that stuff to them. Then concentrate on your boys.

Grieve when you can. Let it out. It's important, and quite frankly, it's healthy.Enjoy your two weeks as best you can. But stay focused on the gameplan of protecting your assets. When your two weeks are over see if you can get some IC for yourself. It can't hurt.

Keep posting here, every 10 mins if you have to. You will get through this, I promise you. Have no expectations. Your sitch will not necessarily play out the same as anyone else's here.

You can handle this. We all know you can. And we're all here for you.

Strength and Honor bro!

Mules

PS-Coach, I must be in MLC lalaland because I am so down with the tattoo thing! Well, at least the beers!

Last edited by mulesqb; 12/11/09 03:21 PM.

M 43
W 44
M 17
T 22
S16,12,9
Bomb 2/05/08
I served her 1/06/09
S'd 3/15/09
D'd 12/21/09



"Tough times don't last, tough people do." --My Dad to me years ago, me to my boys now.