Don't write off your cousin. UNDER NO CIRCUMSTANCES.
She is your best friend, and from what I have seen, been the only one looking out for you. Something you need to understand... she's been there for you, held your hand throughout this ordeal. It's natural that she be looking out for you. And she has the RIGHT to whack you over the head. She's earned it. Listen to her because she's got your back.
VALUE HER. Thank her for being there for you. Time to practice your validating and understanding skills on her.
People like her are gold.
Thanks for chipping in on my thread.
M:11 | T:12 | Status: Married 4C's of WAS communication: Cool, Calm, Collected and CONFIDENT