I know exactly how you feel. You feel validated because now you know...but the flip side of this is that it hurts. It is very difficult to keep those images away as I operate in the same way....replaying what I though happened.

Now you know...what are you going to do with this information that helps YOU, not her? Sounds like you are going in the right direction and getting some great advice here. Best of luck to you.


M 33, W 30, SD 10, D 5, S 4

Made it through the WAW, living happily together now. And I am much wiser for it!