It seems to me that you are ignoring the elephant in the room. Look at what Coach has given you. Look at what you should have been doing but Nomad beat you to it and look what has happened for him.

It looks like you are setting boundries for yourself in regards of responding to her problems.

THIS WILL NOT GO AWAY ACTING NICE. She is passifying you by going to MC, the woman will spin 2 plates as long as she can.

Burt