When she first kicked me to the curb I begged her to try something -preacher, counseling, books, etc. she still opted for seperation.
Now after reading DR I understand that was not the correct behavior but how do i lead her to counseling. She does not look upon that very favorably. I think mainly because her BGF was in counseling and found out her H was in another affair. They started MC because ha had admitted to A several years prior, than during MC she discovered he was having another!
Kinda Ironic is that W thinks her GF's H is a piece of sh*t and has big problems when she is guilty of the same behavior!
Anyway do I just go individually and watch to see what happens? I have read that in DR, but it seems to me that some progress needs to be made here first.
I dunno - talk to me!
M43 W43 D11 S7 M18 T20 WAW is back & trying (no she was lying) Close to callin' it busted but.... watching Whatever the outcome - It was a choice.
