SD, I echo Greek's thank you a million times over. I cannot comprehend the sacrifice you and our other folks in our military make to preserve our way of life. We can never adequately repay you for what you do.
Ok, on the report being with your CO, let him handle that part. Do you know if he will disclose that report to OM's COC (I would assume they would need that)? In any case, don't worry about that aspect. Right now, "embrace the suck" as Coach says. Let the emotions run their course, then pick yourself back up and make your plan.
None of us want to be here, but this place has allowed me to grow in ways I never thought possible and keep my sanity. It gets a little slow over the weekend, but I will keep an eye out for your posts this weekend.