? Right time for H to come home

[peacetoday]

L
If your H is anything like mine, you will notice a lot of waffling especially in begiinning of crises
they spend time with us and kids
then they back off
they dont answer calls
then they answer
they are very inconsistant, I think becaUSE they are torn between two worlds
they still have a foot in the family worlf the other foot is in tennage land with ow, new friends ect freedom
they seem to get moments of clarity
then they return to their other world
nothing means anything really
I understand your anxiety/ fear about seeing him
this is all a process and a journey for us
you will do fine and yes it is probably the most difficult thing I ever did wa stand
but the rewards are worth it
no matter what happens to The M
the inward rewards for doing the work are great
peace