Deployed Soldier/Father needs your help

[SoldierDad]

Coach,
of course-they are all over!!!. Why is it she wrote what she wrote? About not caring? Why didn't she argue, or try to get more info from me? This is what my W is good at-manipulating me into thinking I am nuts!!! My chain is doing everything they can to notify his, not sure if it will happen today, but they told me they are doing everything they can.
Is a cease contact order something I have to do at the courthouse, or do you mean through the military? Because throught the military, my Chain is going to deal with it/him.