Deployed Soldier/Father needs your help

[SoldierDad]

Ok,
Just to get up to speed here. This is what I have done so far:
1. Notified my chain of command, who is working to get in touch with OM chain.

2. Sent text to W, "W I will not share you with another man. If you do not stop this affair, I will do whatever it takes to protect myself and my boys". Response from W at 0500 this morning: Whtever H im not having an affair beleive wht u want dont care.

3. Learned that W has court date for a restraining order against me on 16 Dec at 1500.

4. Packed my stuff, cried, read my thread, cried some more, looked at PI report-cried, looked at pics from PI report-cried.

5. Want to send W something that shows her what I know, but have NOT done that.

Waiting to go to airport for my flight.

That's it in a nutshell-oh, and losing my mind a few times too.