Deployed Soldier/Father needs your help

[SoldierDad]

So,
just sit on the info, and let her think what she wants to think? I mean, soon the OM chain of command is gonna talk to him, but I just am not feeling like I was earlier today. What do I do with this info? How long do I hold onto it, before I reveal it? Just so many questions... So much I am thinking.

She's so freaking non-chalant about it all - "whatever, think what you want, I'm not having an affair"
You know the thing is, I would have thought she would have made more of an effort to see what I knew. But - nothing, just whatever you think...