#67 Cant find my "pieces"

[AliSuddenly]

Hey M,
I understand what you are saying about not being a game player and not a yes man at work either, I am the same. My Mum told me to be more the femme fatale when we were separated and I had to really try to act like that and I think it helped, but theres no way I would do that now we are back together and I dont think you should either. And you shouldnt HAVE to do that, he decided he wanted back, didnt he?

I agree with SandyCay, maybe there are not reasons or excuses, perhaps he doesnt do these things because its just not him. Perhaps he wanted to do/get something right, or great, but basically ran out of time, or forgot to organise it until it was too late (he works days and nights right?). No time for life.

I'm interested as to WHY he decided to do nothing, as far as I can tell, you didnt get to the bottom of that one. Would seem crucial, why didnt he? What stopped him? It cant be because YOU didnt do anything, the onus is on the one that did the betrayal right. I think you didnt pursue his reasoning because you just got upset and angry at him and then he didnt call back, right? I am curious though.

Like I said, I dont think you should file to teach him, only do it if you genuinely are done with him and are calm. Dont say it in reaction to your hurt and anger?

I'm sorry, a year on and you are still waiting for him to crack open.
xxx