This is now the third person I've talked to that has said no way. So I'm starting to believe it was a big mix up.
dont let your guard down.
when 2 married people have a long term affair there are periods of high intense passion and periods of lull. lulls occur during the holidays when you need to have your mind on family orientated activities, when one or the others spouse starts acting suspicious, after a rubber breaks, that period right when school is starting up and the pattern of activities is changing, sometimes when it starts getting too passionate or one acts needy because getting caught and being together wasnt in the game plan.
keep your guard up. your description of your husbands behavior is extremely suspicious.
