Is this the end of my marriage?

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I think I read that many WAS say the relationship started after the split! I wonder if people will believe the truth.

I don't know to be honest. W will probably be angry that I am telling people. However, my view is that I'm actually only telling people that have heard the lies, the truth. I'm not speaking to anybody about it who doesn't know anything. If she hadn't told them, I would have to correct her.

Yeah, you feel sorry for her because she is giving up such a good catch for a LOSER! I feel the same for my WH.

It's said THEY never see it that way!

I have to say, whatever I read and understand about this, and how ever much I like to vent, this bit I will never actually get. My W is just screwed up and desperate.

WOW, you really are going all out this year! Your D will love it!! Now what does "two fingers to the W" mean? Is that a Scottish version of flipping her off or is it Victory?

It's the Scottish version of flipping her the finger ... Think of Churchill's V for victory fingers and turn them around so the Churchills V faces you ...

For want of a bit of history about it (which I like).

English archers used long bows which were far superior to anything the French had during the numerous Anglo-French Wars. Because the English longbowmen were so dangerous, whenever the French captured them they would cut off the two fingers that allowed them to draw the bow back. The English, in defiance, used to stick those two fingers up to show the French that they still had them.

There you go. Not only is this forum helping us deal with our WAS's it's also educational