Today was different again. H was very stressed over business matters and we had a disagreement over finance which will impact our settlement.

He's fine now but there was a point where it reminded me of days gone by when he would lose his cool and not talk to me for weeks.

He called me back later and gave me further information on the business matter and spoke nicely to me. He conceded that he was very stressed and it wasn't my fault...he does feel I should recognise this trait in him, that it's not a positive trait, just the way he is.