Stop it..... just stop...... Today, no different than yesterday unless you make it different.....
Ian
I'll make it better.
Good. B/C saying "so sad to be div" isn't dealing with what is reality. What's sadder than being div? Being in limbo forever. When do you think you'll give up the chains you are dragging around with you and start living your new life? The one with GAL stuff and 180's? Losing a house in this area is not a big fat failure. Hell, it might be brilliant. A lousy marriage ending is not the biggest disaster either. You need to move fast now Frank, b/c you are behind where you need to be and where you ought to be by now.
I wouldn't say that to someone not cognitively capable of "getting it", but you are smart enough to know this. And I believe strongly that "Where the head goes, the heart will follow." So stop the "stinkin' thinkin'" and get it right in your head and heart and be happy. It's not so complicated. Why stay stuck? It baffles me.
( j )
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
