NO CARD. NO EMOTION> This should only be from the kids and for the kids sake. I'd stay as detached as you've ever been (and you are the master), and be there as minimally as possible, for the kids' sake. Don't wish her a happy birthday, but don't get upset either. Stone cold. She's alone now and you owe her nothing. That's how you should come across.
How about giving her D papers for a bday gift? ok, sorry, couldn't resist.
ok, sorry, couldn't resist.
