The girl I originally heard it from is an ex girlfriend that I don't even know. She was dating a police officer that I don't know either. So I have no way to contact her.
As for my friends H. He told her that in confidence. He is a good man, he wouldn't lie to his wife for some fellow officer. My H and him are friends but not that close. And she did not let on that she was investigating for me. She told him that she "heard" that my H was with this OW. So he had no reason to lie or cover up in front of her.
M: 31 H: 29 Married: 6 yrs Children : 7yr old, 5yr old, 2yr old
Separated: Sept. '09 Moved Back In for wrong reasons: Nov. 30, 09 Recomitted to our Marriage: Jan. 25, 10 Threatening to leave again: July,14