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OK, G... Here are your list of questions:

1 - How long was she gone after the hour long nail appointment?

2 - Did you follow her / have her followed from there?

3 - Did you retrieve the voice-activated recorder from her purse w/out her becoming suspect?

4 - Where are you?


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Hey everyone,

Firstly thank you for all your prayers. I just got back in about 15 mins ago and was going through all your posts of support. Thank you all.

I'm OK.

Brief sitch update:

- I was going nuts so I followed my own advice... never react or prompt a confrontation when in an emotional state.
- Distance yourself until you regain control.
- Have not retrieved the recorder yet.

Will fill in more details and respond to you each of you later.

Thank you ALL for your prayers, I believe they helped me get my mind back into functioning mode.

EDIT: I've had a few drinks tonight (not intoxicated) and I need to get some sleep (on the couch) Have only said one word "out" to her and am keeping my distance until I have a few hours sleep under my belt.

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Hey G,

I'm glad you're OK, and following your own advice.

I've been following your thread, and and I'm sure many others do that (like me) never comment. You are in my thoughts and prayers.


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Keep your head up Gnosis. And stay strong. You are one of the strongest men here, I know you will get through this and you will come out with your chin up. Its the type of man you are. Good luck with everything.!


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G,
Originally Posted By: Awoken
I've been following your thread, and and I'm sure many others do that (like me) never comment. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Awoken's spot on, here. Like I always say, look at the Views vs. the Replies columns.
Ratio's almost always greater than 10:1.


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With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them
In the one garden you may call your own."
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When I opened my eyes and felt my headache I immediately thought about you and how you were waking up this morning with one too.

I hope you're ok my friend.


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Mornin' G! smile


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Morning ladies! I'm fine. I really am. I feel I'm back in control. The anxiety is still there, but on a subdued level. I've retrieved the recorder and will be going through it, then I'll update with yesterdays events.

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Taptaptaptaptap....

No rush, G, really... wink

We're right here w/ya!


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Yeah, G, we are all here for you smile


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