Mules, Thank you. I will follow your advice to a "T". I feel vindicated, if that makes sense. I just knew that something wasn't right, and it was just a feeling in my heart, and gut. I just "felt" it. I know I shouldn't worry about how she is reacting, but her not contacting me to try to see what I know is unlike her. maybe she just doesn't care. I need to let go of that rope, and put one foot in front of the other. I am in control. There is NOTHING else that I need to know. I have everything I need to make good, sound decisions. My heart hurts, but knowing the truth, and knowing that it wasn't just me, and my "worrying/smothering", gives me much satisfaction.
"embrace the suck" - Coach "don't go all "Melty Man" on us" - Puppy Let Go and Let God Finally "Got It" - 15 Jan 2010