You're dithering. And mind-reading. YOU HAVE NO IDEA what she's thinking; all you can control is yourself, and you are dithering.
But then again, I've said that already.
Puppy
Okay, Puppy. I can take a 2X4. That’s why I’m here. You’re right. I am dithering. On one hand, that’s because I bothered to research this and get help from this site and others. I know there are right and wrong choices in this sitch that will either help it or hurt it. On the other hand, I know I need to have a plan and follow it. Every sitch is different, and it’s hard to know what to do. What I do next could either cause the A to die and move us toward the restoration of our marriage, or ruin everything. It’s a bitch of a choice to make.
Maybe I should just let it go until at least sometime after Christmas and follow Steve’s advice:
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regarding the rest of your thread norm, STOP! writing these little scenerios in your head, its not healthy nor how it is going to go down. Write a script called, 'Norm's having the time of his life!' then go out and live it.
H: 50 W: 48 Married 20 years Bomb and separation: 9/12/09 A discovered 12/02/09 http://tinyurl.com/yctnhec
