I can take it no more soldiers wife need help

[armywifevampi]

I have not called him and I tried calling the 1800 # and even on the web site it send me here. I have not text or call him at all but what bothered me the most is when I clime to him that a girl was calling my phone. He really texted and called me right away. I did not pick up when he called and have not text since. I have not spoken to him at all. I gave him all the space he’s wanted since the 31 on Halloween he called me only when he came home from parting and drinking. I have not said nothing other then hey how are u and just cowman stuff have not said nothing about us or anything that’s going on be for this . I think that was more then enough space. He since the 31 on Halloween has not text me other then hi how are u , how’s it going, that’s all no more I love u or miss u or nothing and I have not said it back. I just got tired of hoping he would call or text me with something other then what he’s been doing. Why the change if I have done nothing wrong. Before this ever happened I have not done nothing different other then to support him in every way and he always us to do everything the same way and now he changed from one day to the other on the 31. Why is my ?. What went so wrong if everything was fine . I did back then ask that ? And he told me to stop figuring him out that he was not going to tell me why he’s changed . I just gave u guys a quick revue for what was going on in our life’s there is more to tell . Since the 31 on Halloween night . I just give u peace of what happened when it happened cuz I was angry and the bad parts always come out first I guess. He is not a bad man at all its just how he is treating me that’s wrong and im just tiring to figure out why . U say to stop smothering him . He never had a problem with me calling him Twice a day or texting him once in a while. With I love u or I miss u . and then I am very confuse but I have not text or called him at all no more and I think I will not do that . For someone to change so fast in a short time there is something more to it then what im doing and he just cant confront me with it I guess. If its me I would change but I don’t think ive done nothing wrong. And he told me that at the time he said it was him so why not talk to me and just keep punching me away. If u have a problem im here no mater how big or small I would not let go unless is something threatening to my life and his or daughter. I wish I know if I can only get in to his head and know why I might help him see his way . Something things happen for a reason but sometime when u love some one so much u let go so u wont hurt no more for what they are doing to u again and again I know but ive never given up on my marriage ive always been a fighter in everything ive done . And look after so many years im willing to just give it all up cuz I cant take it no more. Ignorance is the worst thing u can do to some one but it will never work with him . I’ve tried that already . He’s good at it though cuz he now’s it kills me in side and I tried not to but that’s my weakness im to nice and sweet and loving and I get walked over and over again and I still don’t give up. I don’t know just very confuse I would like for him to tell me what he wants and don’ts. But I cant even get a sentence out of him never in all our 21 years of marriage. He’s always been thing way with communication but not to the point as this. Ive tried to help him but I guess ive failed in that field. Im trying to answer every one back in here


im not sure if im asking the right ? sorry