Deployed Soldier/Father needs your help

[bluerain]

Hi SD, Im sorry. I would demand a stop contact order. This is a career destroyer for this man.

Other than that, dont talk to her about it. When you talk to your boys, I wouldnt bring it up either. I wonder if you are still obligated to keep paying her bills in this case? Is she still eligible for her entitlements and benefits if shes involved in an A?

Im so sorry, this is devestating news, but now you are armed with knowledge, it cant surprise you when you get home.