Ok, I have confirmation from PI. It is OM-a Soldier. I need some help here from puppy coach-anyone. what do I do???
Hold on. Catch your breath. Wait. When you get home, 1)contact the guy's CO. 2) Find out if the guy is married and if so, tell his W about the info you have. 3)Stay away from him. You are out of sorts.
Don't tell your W - DO NOT TELL YOUR W - your plans to contact the CO and W. Just do it. Don't lay anything down with her until you have spoken with an attorney and get legal advice. If you tell her anything, tell her "I will not share you with another man. If you do not stop this A, I will do whatever it takes to protect myself and my boys." And that is ALL you need to say. If she carries on, just tell her "The way you're acting right now is just not very attractive to me. I don't have anything else to say to you until you stop your A."
You must be careful, SD. You could either be really really smart with your two weeks home...or let your emotions take over and blow the whole thing.
