I'm sorry to hear the news SD. I know how you feel- it's devastating, take some time to come to terms with this.

Nothing's really changed. You knew this was a probability. You had certain goals and tactics in dealing with your M. Evaluate how the latest twist might affect your decisions.

I'm sure Puppy and/or Coach will be along shortly.

Me 42
W 39
Married: 11 Jan 1998, T: Since 1992
First Bomb: Sep 2007
Confirmed A/OM: 4 Nov 2007
Kids: D10, S5
Reconciled and together again after (alot of) time and heartbreak.
3rd kid, S, born 2 Jan 2010.