At the same time, I have had 2 others ask me out. Great for my confidance, but not what I really want.
I don't want to give them false hope either. I don't want to mess with their heads. One if them actually started off by telling me her problems. I pretty much used db'ing as an option for them (but not to get her ex back, but to get her ex more involved in their sons life, but it had the opposite effect. She thought I was a genius and wanted to get to know me more by the end of the conversation.
