as we move forward II

[peacetoday]

I would also agree
I would not ask my xh to stop by at christmas
He needs to be the one to deal with his R with the kids and if he chooses no R so be it
I am not going to fix it anymore
yes it is sad, the mlcer does not seem for the most part to be an available parent
that is still the way it is
I would always encourage the R with mlcewr and child
I would help in any way to promote interaction
be flexible ect ,,if xh was asking for that
but im not going to try to rescue it anymore
just my opinion
peace