BiBi, Welcome aboard. You first have to get to a place emotionally, spiritually, physically and mentally where you are strong enough to stand up for yourself and set some boundaries. You might not make or you might reconcile. You need to get to the other side a better, stronger and wiser woman regardess of the out come.
The DBing helps you get stronger. The setting boundaries busts the affair.
Go read the thread call "Puppy, My Story." for starters.
You can handle it.
Cheers Coach
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
