here's a question:

do lbs set a time limit of how long they will 'wait" for working towards a reconcilation?

meaning, say you seperated 3 months ago, have not had any contact, are in limbo status, do you say, okay well if i do not see any progress towards reconciling, i'm going to try my darndes dbing for 6 months and if no change, hang it up and file for divorce.


Me 39 H 30
d 18 previous marriage
d 2.5 with H
s 4.5months with H
Seperation Nov09
july i'm dim to dark - set internal deadline