I gave you a big ole apology on your other thread, and it's heartfelt, too. And if you don't know what I'm talking about, then you'll find it soon enough. SH!T! Well, I'm sorry, and I hope you'll still talk to me cause this post you made here is the first real, honest thing I've seen from you... and with that, you can overcome almost anything.
I don't think your wife and you are growing apart. I think you and your wife are having some severe boundary issues, and some really HUGE communication problems.
I can go on to explain, but I got all pious on you on your other thread and I need to go upstairs for a bit to feel sorry for myself, and... I gotta wait to see if you are going to still talk to me.