For those with a WAS...How do you cope?

[courts0818]

Hi bluerain! Good advice. : ) Actually, I'm not that mad right now - can you believe it? I said a few choice words (to myself) and then let it go. But you are sooooo right - I make BAD choices when I'm emotionally charged. Very bad ones. : 0

This is good: "The next time that he contacts you, I would say something about being disappointed that he disrespected your DD like that, and hes lucky that shes probably too young to remember what you hope is this isolated incident."

And thank you. I've been consistent for 2 weeks - it's all about small steps, right? ; ) Thanks for checking in.