Still in the tunnel with hubby

[kjensen]

Hi Sandycay,
I'm still hoping to bust this D.. Met with lawyer today and am hoping that H will agree to file for a legal separation rather than D..if/when his lawyer files. H said he's overwhelmed by the amount of stuff they want him to fill out.

H was very touchy today. H said he had 20 pages of stuff to fill out and I asked him if he would mind making a copy of stuff for me since most of the documents are probably at his office/computer. He didn't say anything but later told me it made him angry that I asked , like I took him for granted that he had 10 hours to devote to copying stuff for me...

I apologized.

D12 went home from school sick yesterday and I missed 6 hours of work to pick her up and stay with her. Today she tried to go to school(an in hindsight I stupidly let her determine this) and after she'd been there 10 minutes she called H to pick her up(b/b I asked her to call him if she needed to go home since I couldn't miss more work easily). H thought she was 'playing him' by taking him away from work to pick her up..since she is mad at him and doesn't want to talk to him or be around him...not what she would do in my opinion.

His filter is that he is a victim/being stepped on.

Its hard to fight those filters.