Dont say anything right now- remember, something that you know about yourself is that you make bad choices when you are emotionally charged! Well, not necessarily "bad" choices, but you know what I mean!
In fact, I wouldnt make a special point to contact him about it at all. The next time that he contacts you, I would say something about being disappointed that he disrespected your DD like that, and hes lucky that shes probably too young to remember what you hope is this isolated incident. If you do choose to call him, I would wait until you are calmed down enough to say what needs to be said, and leave it at that. Whatever you do, do not engage him in an arguement about it!
Oh, Hi by the way! Nice to see you doing so well! lol.
I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...
