I freaked out the last time WH brought it up but then the very next day went back to being cool, confident, cheerful and have kept it up since.
(the jury's still out though)
Does your WH know you don't want the divorce? I reminded mine of that fact a couple of weeks after he brought it up (but could have done it that same day). I just casually said " You know I don't want the divorce, right?"
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004