Pls help--confused and fearful

[newmama]

DO NOT RESPOND YET. All I can tell you that my DB coach said was to "face your fear," "do the opposite of what he would expect" and that divorce takes a long time to complete.

Go onto other people's threads and ask them what you should do! I think maybe "Not yet. When are you picking the kids up?"

or something non D related. Also, DBD, remember that my WH brought it up but hasn't pursued it (YET). I hear the WAS often bring it up--so stay cool, calm, cheerful, collect.