CeMar:

Man, you are just not comprehending me.

T-R-Y A-G-A-I-N.

I'm not asking you if YOU HAVE TOLD YOUR WIFE your sex life has changed dramatically.

I asked you if your WIFE ACKNOWLEDGES that your sex life has changed dramatically.

I did not ask you if YOU TOLD YOUR WIFE that YOU find your sex life unsatisfactory.

I asked if SHE ACKNOWLEDGES that you find it unsatisfactory.

And third, I asked you if you have ASKED her if she is willing to explore ways with you to change that?

Have you asked her or not. Period.

Thank you for the low down on your household division of labor. That is very helpful, and I will get back to it when we get these other questions answered.

Do you understand how you are not answering my questions? I'm not trying to be a jerk here, but if I'm not being clear, I need to know.

Corri