Hi Armywife. I read your other thread and Im curious about the phone calls that you were getting from the woman who claimed to be with your H? Did anything else come from that? I told my H's command that he was having an A. I dont regret it one bit, but I will admit that its probably not the approach that is appropriate for all sitches.

Also, if you go to military one source, then follow the links for Army active duty family members, you will find an 800 number that will hook you up with some free *confidential* counseling. I think that you are eligible for either 4 or 6 free sessions with a therapist above and beyond what tricare offers.

First and foremost, stop trying to contact him. Not only will it show you being respectful of his (most likely BS) complaints, but it will give you time to calm down and focus on you and your kiddos. You need to figure out some positive things that you can do for yourself to help YOU get through this. I understand that you are concerned about whether or not you should go see him with the ticket that you have already gotten, but really, when is that trip? I dont think that fretting over it is going to help you much right now. Focus on how you can make your life better today, and then tomorrow. Take it one day at a time, and let us know how we can help you.

I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...