Suppose that W's molester used to wear a funny mask and made her wear a clown nose during the molestation. ...
Now, suppose you replace the mask and clown nose with clitoral stimulation and sexual pleasure.
...Most victims of molestation experience sexual pleasure while being molested. This becomes increasingly difficult to live with as one grows up and gets a better grip of what was going on. If this is the case with your W, then being sexually stimulated and experiencing sexual pleasure could be repulsive because they are retraumatizing.
Thank you. That is a profound insight into some women and where they are emotionally.
>43 years of marriage--My wife and I are now closer than we have been in decades. I believe that my SSM is over.
