Why do we keep making excuses for this man? He is obviously a smart intelligent man that KNOWS how to date someone. He's not a dipshit in that arena. He did it with Kalni in the beginning and he did it with OW (sorry K) but I just have to say these are all just BS excuses as to why this man can't even freaking buy an anniversary gift or ML to his wife. Usually the person that got the short end of the stick has the problem with sex not the other way around.
I am sorry these just seem like weak excuses that go round and round. There is no rhyme, there is no reason. This is who he has become for whatever reason. It doesn't mean he can't/couldn't change but the fact is.... he is not changing. Oh, he's said some things that sound good but doesn't follow thru. He's lack of time bothers me.... he had time to do other things before now why can't he have that time to spend with his family.
I smell a rat! Your right K in that he doesnt' act like he is that into you. I think he doesn't like hurting you. That's what he is protecting you.
I am sorry if this is harsh... it's not meant to be and it's only my opinion and thoughts.
I would love to see this man step up!
M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too