Okay, work with me here, buddy. I'm not trying to put you on the defensive, I'm actually trying to help you.
You didn't answer my question, at least not in my opinion. So let me ask again.
Is your wife aware of the fact that your sex life has considerably changed. I'm not asking if you are satisfied with quantity or quality, or if she is satisfied with quantity or quality. I'm just asking you if your wife is willing to agree that your sex life has radically changed from what it once was.
Answer yes or no.
If the answer is yes, does she acknowledge that you find it unsatisfactory (not with the particulars, just answer the basic question).
Answer yes or no.
Have you asked her if she is willing to explore ways with you to change that?
Answer yes or no.
There is a purpose for me asking these questions and I am willing to explain if you can be patient with me for a bit.
Now. Can you list out for me the things you do to help out around with house -- things you do on a daily basis that if you didn't do, she would feel she had to do -- and how you help out with the kids. Again, I'm not looking to put you on the defensive. I'm just looking for simple answers.
Everday I do _________________. Make a list for me. Again, there is a reason for my asking, and I need you to help me out here, k?
