I would be willing to cut our ORIGNIAL sex life in half, from everyday to 3 times a week. However, it currently is once a month (She being the typical LD spouse way over estimates how much sex we have, cause I actually record it when we do). So for her to get to a level that is a 50% reduction from what I actually want is about 10 times more then she is currently doing. THAT IS A LONG WAY FOR HER TO GO! And quantity does not mean quality sex. Quality sex can only be acheived when BOTH partners DESIRE the sex. I do not want sympathy sex, I want TRUE PASSION. The irony of LD/HD marriages is the one partner that does not want to be desired IS DESIRED, while the partner that YEARNS to be desired GETS NOTHING.
