Michelle,
we spent a session in MC on Dec 10th 2008, talking about why he should have "risked" to do something, anything the day before. He then said "he got it", a year later, the same crap...

I had prepared something, a cooking lesson for us with a famous chef here that I had to cancel because he was working. I mentioned it to him, just didnt say why I had it arranged.

I also ordered something for me to wear (a symbolic jewelery) that I wore yesterday that he would have to see me to see it. I cant be TELLING him I am doing something when it is a surprise. And what about him FEELING he wanted to do something to aknowledge the day? Like leave a note saying "sorry or I love you", I mean that doenst need to be accepted, right? You just do it!
K


Me&H:42
S11&D10
Bomb 5/2007-Sep 11/2007
Reconc.November 2009