They are 13, 11, and 8. We are incredibly busy people. Heck, I have not even dated my wife in a year. I am going to do like Michelle and change ME. I am going to work on being a conversationalist, I am going to DATE my wife, I am going to learn to listen, and work on doing everything I can around the house, and be a better father. But what scares me is I have very little belief right now that any of these things will work, I have never really been a "BAD" husband. I still remember my 10th anniversery, I took my wife away for the weekend, went to a romantic B&B, spent the whole time doing what she wanted to do, had a great time, and then in our room, we had chocolate covered strawberries and champaigne, and I took a shower and laid on the bed in a towel. My wife comes out of the bathroom in full length flannel pajamas. She then sat on the be for 2 hours or more "Cross" stitching. She even made the comment, "Isn't this nice how we can have a wonderful day like this and NOT have to have sex". I knew then my marriage was probably over! And now I have a HUGE hill to climb to somehow help her regain her desire for me.
