He doesn't know the rules while reconciling/trying to R. He knows the M rules - you get gifts. He knows the single rules - you don't get gifts. But you are in between.
He didn't know what you wanted. And he didn't know what you would do - i.e. if you would get him a gift. And if I remember correctly, you didn't talk to him in advance about doing anything or exchanging gifts.
Hell, he may not know if you consider your A to be your "real A" anymore because of all the crap that has happened over the last few years.
Now that you have communicated that to him though, I hope he comes thru with flowers or something sparkly!
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
