I have to realize that I am literally bathing in testosterone, and that she is not. But how do I fix the "Desire" gap. I am willing to do ANYTHING, to work hard to change ME to her "DREAM" man, but I am scared to death that all of this very hard work I am going to embark on will still not get me the results I need, a women that "DESIRES" me. When a women loses her desire like my wife, they write it off as a cmpletely natural thing and then dismiss it. The person that must suffer for the wife's loss is NOT HER, it is the MAN that now will have to spend the rest of his life in a living hell. SHE GETS TO SPEND THE REST OF HER LIFE WITH HER LOVER, WHILE MINE IS DEAD! I do not want to be like a brother and sister, I want to be "LOVERS". My #1 need is just like most other men, "Complete sexual fullfillment." If this need can not be met, my marriage will be a FAILURE (but by my beliefs divorce is not an option).
