Someone has to lead out of that place. And sometimes, many times, that has to be us.
It is so bizarre that it works this way in some cases. From the other stories I read on this site where WAW ends up moving and filing, it seems like there is a strong R with OM that pulls them away no matter what the circumstances. In my case, the R is there but it hasn't been strong enough to lead her away I think, or she has doubts about whether or not OM is really worth it at this time and isn't ready to bite off the change in lifestyle. Who knows.
In your case GIMA, your W doesn't seem to have an OM or if she does it is kind of on simmer most likely and not strong enough to make her run away and try to overcome financial hurdles of being single, etc.
At the end of the day we all end up in the same place in this case - LIMBO! Enough.
ME/XW:47 S21, D19, S15, S14 M:21 T:26 W moved 6/10 I filed 7/10 D final 4/12 remarried 8/12 W wants to R 12/10 and 4/11 but I decline
