Second...now what? In my opinion, it shouldn't be as easy as W:"Can I come home?" YOU: "Is the A over?" W:"Yes." YOU:"Come home." I think there needs to be a careful discussion about transparency, MC, boundaries. Everyone must agree and comply or it won't work.
Third...took another call in the middle of THAT? Unless she works at a suicide hotline, I think you sent the right message by not answering her call-backs. Geeeeez, woman!
Now...you could take her next call only to say that if she is serious, you want to have a face to face about it. Make the arrangements for that and leave it at that.
WOW.
Get ready. B/c if y'all do start putting this thing together, there is a lot of TOUGH work to do. But you could possibly end up with the happiest marriage you can't even imagine.
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Me45 H46 T25 M22 S21 & 19 D13 Separated and filed 8/08 Moved home 11/08
