hi. i'm new here. 47 wife 40. 12 years together. She's been on the fence for two years, admitted to cheating. She moved out for space and to think but returned after 2 weeks saying she missed me, loved me and wanted to work on things. This was last month. Now she's leaving again in a few weeks. I read the Divorce Remedy and have been laying low, trying to do for me. We eat together, go to movies and gym , and even work together. Seems like we are best friends. HERE IS THE PROBLEM according to her. She Feels like we are a brother and sister , and doesn't feel passion. She said she desired me and wanted me and i was not reciprocal . She said she hit the wall too many times and she can't get back the feeling. She claims to love sex but said it doesn't feel right with me. I do admit to allowing her to be the aggressor/initiator from the beginning. I am a bit shy and she seemed to like that. But as time went by , she became frustrated according to her.I told her i understand and i am quite capable of satisfying her but she's saying it's too late. She keeps saying she's young and doesn't want to feel like she's wasted her life. I am fit , and attractive. She is also. We do love each other but sex is Very important to her as it is to me. I am willing to do Anything, but she said she can't "turn it on like that". She won't go to counseling because when we did go last year she felt the mc was focusing on childhood issues. She Might talk to one of the DB counselors . Someone please steer me in the right direction. !! I don't want to overload her with more talk today as we already discussed this a few hours ago. Thanks
