How does one continue to try and save their marriage when boundaries have to be erected???
I strongly suggest reading the boundary book. It will then be clear as to why it is important to set boundaries.
As far as saving the marriage, I feel boundaries are just one tool. They help make positive changes to the R and get responsibilities back to the proper person.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712