Why do women do this? I knew my wife for 2 years before marrying her. We made love virtually every night! She initiated sex. She flirted. She touched me. She loved to give me oral sex. She slept naked with me at night. Then 2 years into our marriage, we have our first child. She gets a hypoactive thyroid. The sex drops off to now it is once a month if I beg long enough. Oral sex from her is out of the question now, it is Gross! Do women not understand that when they marry, they are committing to being their husbands lover, FOREVER? Why do they pull this old bait and switch, pretending to be great lovers and then stopping the love after the marriage. Then why do women ACCEPT the fact that they have lost their desire, you would think that they would do anything to get it back?