Dude

You and I are twins...

My W left approx same time your did. She has been shutting down for awhile...

Hate to tell you, but there is somebody else. An EA or PA...

No matter what you do, she will notice and not care. Why should she, she is getting what she believes she needs right now, someplace else.

Wait until after the holidays... then dig up the info you need.

Everyone is right, don't mess it up for the kids by turning yourself into a wreck.

WOW! Hearing your story is like reading my own....

Good Luck

Me 43 / W 40
T 29 / M 15
S-18
11/4/09-ILYBINILWY
11/10/09-Separated
12/1/09-W admitted EA
12/5/09-W admitted PA
12/24/09 W say "I love you"


"A GOOD MARRIAGE IS NOT ONE WHERE PERFECTION REIGNS"